2024-09-08
44 分钟Hello, and welcome back to advice session, a series here on anything goes, where you send in your current dilemmas or anything that you want advice on, and I give you my unprofessional advice, and then you take the advice with a grain of salt, and then we are both happy.
And today's topic is getting out of your own way because, wow, we can really be our own worst enemies sometimes, huh?
I'm my own worst enemy all the time.
Sometimes I'm my harshest critic, just shitting on everything that I do.
Sometimes I'm my biggest hater, just unfairly shitting on myself.
Not shitting on myself literally, but metaphorically, I do not often shit on myself.
Okay, so let's be clear.
But also, sometimes I'm my own worst enemy in sneakier ways.
Like allowing myself to self sabotage, or convincing myself that my bad, toxic ideas are good ideas, or not standing up for myself or allowing myself to harbor limiting beliefs.
You know, there are so many different ways that we can be our own worst enemy.
And I think to be human is to be, at times, our own worst enemy.
It's something that we all deal with.
Let's begin.
This episode is brought to you by eBay.
This is what you do when you've just found that statement handbag on eBay and you want to build an entire wardrobe around it.
You start selling to keep buying.
Yep, on eBay, over that all black everything phase, list it and buy all the color.
Feeling more vintage than ever, it's out with the new and in with the pre loved.
Next thing you know, you've refreshed your wardrobe, basically without spending a dime.
Yeah, eBay.