How 30 Blocks Became 30 Years | With Peter Sarsgaard

30个街区如何变成30年|与彼得·萨斯加德

Modern Love

2019-10-03

19 分钟
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Peter Sarsgaard ("The Sound of Silence") reads an essay about the relationship between a man with spinal muscular atrophy and his wife of more than 30 years.
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  • Modern.

  • The podcast is supported by produced by the Ilab at WBUR Boston.

  • From the New York Times and WBUR Boston.

  • This is modern love stories of love, loss, and redemption.

  • Im your host, Meghna Chakrabarty.

  • For more than 30 years, Ben Matlin has been in an interabled relationship where one partner lives with a disability and the other doesnt.

  • In fact, he says he coined the phrase, and in his essay, he writes about why and how that relationship has endured.

  • His piece is read by Peter Sarsgaard.

  • Peter has starred in an education and Wormwood, and his new movie is the Sound of Silence.

  • When Mary Lois and I started our relationship on that humid night in Stamford, Connecticut, we may not have expected it to last.

  • After all, I was unable to scratch my own nose, let alone walk, and she was three years older than me and far more independent.

  • I asked if I could kiss her.

  • I had to ask because I couldn't lean in on my own.

  • My body doesn't work that way.

  • So she leaned in and kissed me, as I'd never been kissed before.

  • You were just a kid, she told me recently.

  • I was 19.

  • She wore her straight auburn hair and a short boy cut.

  • Then, more than 30 years later, she still does, though the color has faded.

  • I wasn't only attracted to her iconoclastic spirit, alluring eyes, and figure.