It Took A Villain | With Melanie Lynskey

需要一个恶棍|与梅兰妮·林斯基

Modern Love

2017-04-27

20 分钟
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Melanie Lynskey of "Togetherness" and the new film "Little Boxes" tells the story of a neighborhood bully and the faltering marriage he inadvertently strengthened.
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  • Modern.

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  • From the New York Times and WBUR Boston.

  • This is modern love stories of love, loss and redemption.

  • I'm your host, Meghna Chakrabarti.

  • Sometimes outside tensions create the energy needed to heal what's hurting inside a relationship.

  • That was the case for Teresa DeFalco and her husband Anthony.

  • When their marriage started to come apart, a neighborhood troublemaker inadvertently created more good than bad.

  • Melanie Lynskey reads for us this week.

  • You may know her from HBO's togetherness and CBS's two and a half Men.

  • Here she is reading Teresa DeFalco's essay, it took a villain to save our marriage.

  • Here are three truths.

  • Intimacy isn't always sweet.

  • The suburbs can be lonely.

  • And as the writer Mary Cantwell said, marriages, at least in the beginning, take three people.

  • The third provides the glue.

  • Anthony and I were in year six of our marriage, not the beginning, but we needed glue.

  • We lived in a suburb, the kind where everyone is friendly but no one seems to be a friend.

  • Our house was on a short street at the top of a hill.

  • We lived at one end of a cul de sac, and a man named Gary lived at the other end, six houses down.