2022-09-29
51 分钟Hello.
A lot of people in my generation, and possibly the generation above me, which would be millennials.
I am Gen Z.
I've noticed that a lot of people in the millennial and Gen Z age group are choosing their career over love.
This might be something that is more prevalent in big cities, like Los Angeles, where I live, or New York, where I go frequently.
But I'm not sure.
This might be.
This might be a universal thing.
I'm not completely sure where this mindset resides.
Is it mainly in the big cities?
Is it also in more normal towns throughout the world?
I don't know.
I don't know.
But regardless, I've noticed that there seems to be this sort of belief within young people that you can't have both.
You can't have love and a successful career.
You have to choose one or the other.
And I've kind of seen this narrative float around a little bit on the Internet, a little bit in person, too, and it really got me thinking, is this true?
Do you have to choose one?
Do you have to choose being in love and having a relationship, or having a successful career, or can you have both?
And upon reflecting on my own life and thinking for a while, I've realized that I think you can have both.