the rules we learned as kids... are BS?

我们小时候学到的规则.是BS吗?

anything goes with emma chamberlain

2023-01-26

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remember when you were a child and constantly had adults telling you what the rules were? don’t lie, don’t steal... don’t do this, don’t do that. when we’re children, we’re constantly being reminded of certain rules and principles that we’re supposed to follow no matter what. and i think that’s important! but i think in our late teens and early adulthood, we have to take it upon ourselves to find nuance in these rules. i’ve actually struggled in my life a little bit because i’ve felt this internal pressure to follow these fundamental rules i learned as a kid, and there was never a check-in moment where an adult told me that things aren’t always so black and white. i’ve sort of had to figure this out on my own. so today i’m gonna discuss a few of my discoveries about these rules, and i think there are some things that could even be beneficial to unlearn as an adult. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices
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  • Hello.

  • Remember when you were a child and constantly you had adults telling you what the rules were?

  • Go to bed by 09:00 p.m.

  • don't talk badly behind people's backs.

  • Be friends with everybody.

  • Be nice to everybody.

  • Don't lie.

  • Don't steal.

  • Don't hurt anyone.

  • Don't do this.

  • Don't do that.

  • When we're children, we're constantly being reminded of certain rules and principles that we're supposed to follow no matter what.

  • And I think that this is important.

  • You know, the things that we learn as kids, the principles that we learn as kids follow us throughout our lives and become ingrained in our minds in a way that I think is good in a lot of ways.

  • You know, children are very supple to information.

  • You know, children are like information sponges.

  • And I think that if we didn't teach kids these values and these principles, then it would be a lot harder to teach them as adults.

  • You know, it's a lot easier to teach a kid something, I think, than it is to teach an adult.

  • That's why they have the saying, don't try to teach a dog new tricks.

  • Wait, teach an old dog new tricks?