2023-12-07
39 分钟Most of us have either experienced a breakup, are currently going through a breakup, or will at some point in the future, experience a breakup.
Breakups are almost an inevitable part of life.
But I can't say that, because there are a few people out there who never have to go through a breakup.
They meet their first love, and then they marry their first love, and then they die with their first love, and it's just beautiful.
And everyone lives happily ever after, except, you know, inevitably, there is death.
Even with some.
I bet they've died.
At the same time, some people are just lucky, okay?
They get to go through their life without romantic heartbreak.
I don't know if I envy those people, though, because I do think that breakups, despite how fucking awful they are, they can be really transformative, often in a positive way.
Long term.
They really teach you shit about yourself, and they are incredible opportunities for growth.
So today we're talking about breakups.
Specifically, I'm going to be giving breakup advice, and as always, I'm not particularly qualified.
Okay.
I'm 22 years old.
I've gone through a handful of breakups throughout my life.
Not a lot.
Okay.
And actually, one of them was weird because neither of us really liked each other, so neither of us were sad, and it didn't really feel like a breakup.