2023-12-10
51 分钟All right, here we go.
Part two of breakup advice.
Part one was about the breakup itself.
Okay.
We're talking about the two weeks before the breakup.
We're talking about the breakup itself, and we're talking about the week or two that follow the breakup.
That's part one.
If you haven't listened to that yet, go ahead and listen to that.
This is part two.
This is about the equally as challenging and arguably more complicated phase of a breakup.
The months following the breakup.
In some ways, it's easier because you're through the thick of it.
You've survived the first week or two after the breakup.
You got a lot of tears out, but now you kind of have to get back to your life, and that's why it's complicated.
For the first week or two, you can kind of lay in bed and cry and get the bare minimum done, but at a certain point, you have to get back to your life.
You know, in the months following the breakup, you have to get back to your life, and you have to figure out what the hell to do with your time.
Now, you have all this time that you used to dedicate to your partner, but now it's just free.
And it can be really easy to use that time in a negative way.
Use that time in a detrimental way.
You're so used to putting your energy towards your partner that you can end up using this new chunk of time that you have to continue to focus on your partner, but now in a far more harmful way because you're not together anymore.