Welcome back to advice session, a series here on anything goes, where you send in your current dilemmas or anything that you want advice on.
And I give you my unprofessional advice.
And today we're going to be talking about inner turmoil.
All of the dilemmas that I picked relate in some way to inner turmoil, inner struggles that are usually dealt with on one's own.
There's a lot of challenges that we face that feel like our own personal battle, like they're only impacting us directly.
They're personal issues.
And it's challenging to talk about personal issues sometimes because a lot of us feel ashamed about making our personal challenges other people's problem.
We don't want to burden anyone else with our own inner turmoil.
But I think that that's why it's so important to talk about, because a lot of the dilemmas that we're going to discuss are things that people tend to keep to themselves.
It's one thing to have a problem with somebody else or with something else.
It's almost easier at times to have challenges that include an outside source because there's something to blame and there's a clear solution.
A lot of times, like, oh, this person is causing issues in my life, okay, I'm gonna cut them out.
They're done.
And that comes with its own slew of pain and upset.
But at least you can pinpoint easily what the issue is.
Or if you're like, oh, this workout class is not fun for me.
I dread it, and I don't want to go to it anymore.
Okay, I'm not gonna go to it anymore.
Like, when you have an issue with something that's outside of yourself, it's a lot easier to pinpoint.
A and it's a lot easier to communicate, and it's much less daunting when a challenge only involves you.