Dear LK: My parents pay my tuition. Do I have to show them my grades?

亲爱的LK:我的父母付了我的学费。我必须向他们展示我的成绩吗?

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2023-05-04

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If your parents pay for your college, do they have a right to demand to see your grades? Berna Anat, the author of Money Out Loud, shares advice on defining financial expectations and boundaries. Learn more about sponsor message choices: podcastchoices.com/adchoices NPR Privacy Policy
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