What to know if you're exploring non-monogamy

如果您正在探索非一夫一妻制需要了解什么

Life Kit

2023-09-28

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When we think about romance, many of us have a specific script in mind. Two people date, fall in love and get married. But that traditional path doesn't work for everyone. Learn more about sponsor message choices: podcastchoices.com/adchoices NPR Privacy Policy
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  • You're listening to life kit from NPR.

  • Hey, everybody, it's Marielle, and I have a love story for you.

  • When Elizabeth Clark met her partner, she says that was pretty much it for her.

  • I was falling in love with Corey in a way that I was like, this is my person.

  • Like, this is the person that I'm supposed to, like, have my life with.

  • How I knew that, I couldn't tell you.

  • I just kind of did.

  • Liz is a clinical psychologist and the director of counseling at the new school.

  • She's talking about her partner, Corey.

  • They are committed to each other and they're non monogamous.

  • What that means is they're not exclusive.

  • They have relationships with other people, too.

  • Currently, we have a shared partner for the two of us, and we have been in a relationship with them for about three and a half years.

  • And then they have other relationships of their own.

  • When we think about romance, a lot of us have a certain script, one that's been pieced together from years of watching rom coms or observing our parents and our friends parents from reading history books.

  • The list goes on.

  • Person a meets person b.

  • They start dating.

  • They become exclusive.

  • A and b fall in love.