Live with your parents? Here's how to create a harmonious household

和父母住在一起?以下是如何创建和谐家庭

Life Kit

2023-10-23

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Three people who've spent time living with their parents as adults share advice on how they've coped with their situation. Don't compare yourself to others, they say — and find ways to still live your life. Learn more about sponsor message choices: podcastchoices.com/adchoices NPR Privacy Policy
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  • A quick heads up, there's a brief mention of suicidal thoughts in this episode.

  • If you're struggling, call or text the suicide and crisis lifeline at nine eight eight.

  • You're listening to life kit from NPR.

  • Hey, everybody, it's Marielle.

  • I want you to meet freelance journalist Felice Leon and her mom.

  • So tell me, mother, so why are you always all up in my business?

  • Because you are my business, Felice.

  • Felice lives with her parents in a situation thats sometimes referred to as a boomerang when a person leaves their parents house but then comes back to live there later, not necessarily because their parents need help, but because they, the parents adult child, are up against the high cost of living or need time to recover after burning out at a job, for example.

  • And look, when you go home to your parents house, whether its for a few days or way longer, it is easy to regress to the teenage version of yourself.

  • Could we consider like knocking before busting a door open?

  • Okay, that's very true, but what happened when it's the reverse?

  • You bust into my room.

  • That's what am I supposed to do?

  • Belize is based in New York City where rent is not cheap.

  • So living with her parents is a financial choice.

  • And she admits it's a privilege to have parents who are alive and well and can offer her a home.

  • But this living arrangement isn't always easy on either side.

  • How's it going for you and for you and dad?

  • Let's say living with you?

  • Yes.