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Anna Martin: From The New York Times,
I'm Anna Martin,
and this is the Modern Love podcast.
This week's essay is about dating apps.
If you're dating today, you kind of have to use them,
and using them is exhausting.
Bottom line: It's just really hard to attract the kind of person
you actually want to date by using your phone.
The essay is called,
'His Comfort is Not My Responsibility.'
It's written by Alexandra Capellini
and read by Frankie Corzo.
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Frankie Corzo: Rob and I have been talking on Bumble for about a month.
We matched while he was apartment hunting in New York City.
He was handsome, funny and well–educated with roots in Boston.
We stayed in touch.
After he arrived and moved into his new place,
we switched over from app messaging to texting —