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Anna Martin: From The New York Times,
I'm Anna Martin.
This is Modern Love.
So a few years ago,
I found my mom's childhood diary.
On the front page are these really big bubble letters she'd written:
'Keep Out.'
So I thought it would be juicy.
But the wildest she got was talking about her crush on this guy named Tony.
And whenever she wrote his name, she drew this little heart around it.
Most of the entries were just pure teen girl,
how excited she was to wear the plaid bottoms she saved up for —
it was the 70s —
or when her friend said my mom's house smelled like weird Chinese food.
So my mom said her friend's house smelled like wet dog.
These little peeks into my mom's life,
I felt like they were revelatory,
because I got to see how my mom told her own story.
Entry by entry,