2021-04-06
31 分钟Ted audio collective.
You'Re listening to how to be a better human.
I'm your host, Chris Duffy.
So to start off today's episode, let me ask you a question.
Do you volunteer in your community?
Don't feel bad if the answer is no.
No need to feel bad.
Whether you currently volunteer or not, you probably have some mental image of what it means to be a volunteer.
Maybe you picture someone who is just, like, truly next level, someone who's on a different plane of existence, a person who is so pure and good that they've never done anything wrong.
Or maybe your mental image is a little bit less generous, and you imagine someone who is very sanctimonious and holier than thou bragging to you all about the incredible work that they do in the community.
Like most things.
Look, the reality isn't typically either of these extremes.
Some aspects of volunteering that I think don't get talked about either way are that, you know, having a regular commitment can be a great way to meet people, to make friends and develop new skills.
For me, I started volunteering when I moved to LA, and I didn't know that many people here, and I also didn't have reliable work.
And so let's just say I had a lot of free time.
And also, to be honest, I really wanted to have a better answer to the question, what are you up to these days?
Because the one that I was giving kind of made me feel pathetic.
So I've been helping out at a homelessness nonprofit that felt like, ooh, that's a much better response.
And I have to say, though, that by volunteering, I did end up making friends.
And I also learned a lot about one of the most pressing issues that faces this city that I now call home.