2023-09-11
33 分钟Ted audio collective, you're listening to how to be a better human.
I'm your host, Chris Duffy.
When I was growing up, my dad often said that the best advice he'd ever gotten was that life is mess management.
At first I thought that he meant that literally.
My younger brother and I created no shortage of literal messes for him to manage.
I mean, one time I had a friend over and we decided we were going to make it a blizzard inside.
So we took all of the tissues out of a tissue box and shredded them into the air.
It was a beautiful winter wonderland until my parents walked in, and then we were in big trouble.
Okay.
But as I've gotten older, I understand now that mess management isn't always literal.
Things happen in our lives unexpectedly messes happen.
Life does not go according to plan, and we have to figure out how to manage that.
How do we adjust to it?
Todays guest, Andrew Leland, is a writer and an audio producer who has done a lot of deep thinking about transitions and life adjustments.
Andrew has been slowly losing his eyesight for years.
Hes had to figure out how that reorients his relationship to the world, to his friends, to his family, to his work.
And I really love how Andrew talks about this stuff in a nuanced way.
Hes not afraid to live with and to accept some uncertainty.
Whatever your current relationship to ability and disability is, I think that you're going to find a lot to relate to and to learn from in how Andrew thinks about this stuff and how he approaches the world.
I know that I definitely did.